Whether you love or hate this porno shit-and many of you seem to have some feeling about it one way or the other, the good thing is that the series of interviews we've been running is getting you all talking. Aside from the random "these bitches are nasty" comments, it's some really good dialog going on over on this small part of the Internets (shout out to Meka Soul), and that benefits us all at the end of the day. As a journalist, it's not my job to approve or condemn the things or subjects I write about (minus an editorial or a blog). At the end of the day, my job is to inform you-the reader. Whether its Kwame Kilpatrick phone boning, the upcoming UFC fight this weekend, or Lil Wayne talking crazy (again), we report, you decide (no Fox News). What I will do-directly or indirectly-is challenge you all and hope that in turn you continue to challenge me (and the rest of the staff here). So when I engage you-the reader, it's not in an attempt to piss you off, but to challenge the way you think, challenge the way you view this rap shit (or in this case, this porno shit). Love it or hate it, agree or disagree, keep reading, keep responding and keep learning. In this short set of questions—some of which were submitted by you, the reader—Vanessa touches on faking “it” (and you know what “it” is), her favorite performers to work with and what’s off limits on and off camera.
Hip Hop DX: Do you ever fake it?
Vanessa Blue: What woman doesn’t? If she tells you she doesn’t, she’s a fuckin lie, ok?
DX: Does it hurt sometimes?
VB: Yeah of course. Anal does hurt if a guy doesn’t know what he’s doing or doesn’t care about you. Or the director doesn’t care and he wants something psychotic. Yeah, it does hurt.
DX: Any acts that are off limits?
VB: Multiples. I did a [double penetration], it was really fun, but I’m good on it. I don’t think I want to do that again. I don’t want to do anything that I wouldn’t do in my bed room and I don’t want to do anything that I wouldn’t do in front of a husband. Take that any way you want to
DX: [Laughs] Who are your favorites to work with?
VB: Any European guy that doesn’t speak English.
DX: How come?
VB: Cause they don’t speak English
DX: So it’s just all scene?
VB: Having interacted and this is going to be very foul, having interacted with a lot of male talent on the set… I don’t know if guys go through this, but, have you ever talked to somebody and you’re like “oh my God, they look really good” and then you start talking to them and you’re like, “shut the fuck up, I hate you!” I mean immediately, it’s like distaste in your mouth. Not all the guys are like that, but there’s enough male talent like that. And now I have suck your dick.
My favorites are the guys who don’t speak English. We don’t have to talk about anything, I don’t know how fucked up you are, I don’t want to hear about what you did last night. I don’t want to know about the partying, you don’t have to deal with any of that if they don’t speak.
I would love to say [Mr. Marcus], but I haven’t worked with Marcus. I think if I had, he would definitely be my favorite.
DX: Do you ever get tired of having sex?
VB: Do I ever get tired personally? Yes. It’s a double sided thing because there are days where I will practically slam my head into the wall because I want it, and then there are days when I don’t want to be touched at all. I think that’s some of the damage that happens when you do scenes. You have to come in and be prepared for sex whether you want it or not. Whether you’re into that guy, whether you hate the set, whether it’s hot or cold. You've gotta be ready for action. In porn of course, you get tired. But, not if you’re new. If you’ve been here for a while you’re working with the same people, doing shit you don’t want to do.
DX: It gets old, like any other job I guess…
VB: The beauty is, no matter how old it gets you can always close your eyes and be somewhere else. I mean as a woman, the guys can’t but I can close my eyes and be anywhere. Which is why I really wanted to make the transformation to directing, so I can put girls and guys together that I know will want to fuck each other and I’m excited to watch them screw. I’m telling them that when they hit the door, like “holy shit, I was fantasizing about y’all doing this shit, she’s gon’ suck your dick!” and I’m more excited than they are and then it’s a good scene. I personally check out my own product to make sure it passes the test. I love making the transition because I can put two people together that I wouldn’t have been able to work with [before].
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
Whether you love or hate this porno shit-and many of you seem to have some feeling about it one way or the other, the good thing is that the series of interviews we've been running is getting you all talking. Aside from the random "these bitches are nasty" comments, it's some really good dialog going on over on this small part of the Internets (shout out to Meka Soul), and that benefits us all at the end of the day. As a journalist, it's not my job to approve or condemn the things or subjects I write about (minus an editorial or a blog). At the end of the day, my job is to inform you-the reader. Whether its Kwame Kilpatrick phone boning, the upcoming UFC fight this weekend, or Lil Wayne talking crazy (again), we report, you decide (no Fox News). What I will do-directly or indirectly-is challenge you all and hope that in turn you continue to challenge me (and the rest of the staff here). So when I engage you-the reader, it's not in an attempt to piss you off, but to challenge the way you think, challenge the way you view this rap shit (or in this case, this porno shit). Love it or hate it, agree or disagree, keep reading, keep responding and keep learning. In this short set of questions—some of which were submitted by you, the reader—Vanessa touches on faking “it” (and you know what “it” is), her favorite performers to work with and what’s off limits on and off camera.
Hip Hop DX: Do you ever fake it?
Vanessa Blue: What woman doesn’t? If she tells you she doesn’t, she’s a fuckin lie, ok?
DX: Does it hurt sometimes?
VB: Yeah of course. Anal does hurt if a guy doesn’t know what he’s doing or doesn’t care about you. Or the director doesn’t care and he wants something psychotic. Yeah, it does hurt.
DX: Any acts that are off limits?
VB: Multiples. I did a [double penetration], it was really fun, but I’m good on it. I don’t think I want to do that again. I don’t want to do anything that I wouldn’t do in my bed room and I don’t want to do anything that I wouldn’t do in front of a husband. Take that any way you want to
DX: [Laughs] Who are your favorites to work with?
VB: Any European guy that doesn’t speak English.
DX: How come?
VB: Cause they don’t speak English
DX: So it’s just all scene?
VB: Having interacted and this is going to be very foul, having interacted with a lot of male talent on the set… I don’t know if guys go through this, but, have you ever talked to somebody and you’re like “oh my God, they look really good” and then you start talking to them and you’re like, “shut the fuck up, I hate you!” I mean immediately, it’s like distaste in your mouth. Not all the guys are like that, but there’s enough male talent like that. And now I have suck your dick.
My favorites are the guys who don’t speak English. We don’t have to talk about anything, I don’t know how fucked up you are, I don’t want to hear about what you did last night. I don’t want to know about the partying, you don’t have to deal with any of that if they don’t speak.
I would love to say [Mr. Marcus], but I haven’t worked with Marcus. I think if I had, he would definitely be my favorite.
DX: Do you ever get tired of having sex?
VB: Do I ever get tired personally? Yes. It’s a double sided thing because there are days where I will practically slam my head into the wall because I want it, and then there are days when I don’t want to be touched at all. I think that’s some of the damage that happens when you do scenes. You have to come in and be prepared for sex whether you want it or not. Whether you’re into that guy, whether you hate the set, whether it’s hot or cold. You've gotta be ready for action. In porn of course, you get tired. But, not if you’re new. If you’ve been here for a while you’re working with the same people, doing shit you don’t want to do.
DX: It gets old, like any other job I guess…
VB: The beauty is, no matter how old it gets you can always close your eyes and be somewhere else. I mean as a woman, the guys can’t but I can close my eyes and be anywhere. Which is why I really wanted to make the transformation to directing, so I can put girls and guys together that I know will want to fuck each other and I’m excited to watch them screw. I’m telling them that when they hit the door, like “holy shit, I was fantasizing about y’all doing this shit, she’s gon’ suck your dick!” and I’m more excited than they are and then it’s a good scene. I personally check out my own product to make sure it passes the test. I love making the transition because I can put two people together that I wouldn’t have been able to work with [before].
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
The few people who know me that browse this site know that there’s one thing I love almost as much as music: PORN
That’s right. The kid has a serious hang up on all things sex. Movies, pictures, books, etc. You name it; I’ve got it or seen it. There’s something intriguing about the sexual hang ups people have, why people like what they like and so on. One of these days, I’ll devote some serious time to the study of sex (hopefully on some university’s dime), but for now, I’ll stick with interviewing porn stars.
Since my Vanessa Blue interview ran prior to porn week (and thus, making me feel a little left out of the loop), I decided to do this drop for all the folks who got their protest on last week.
No connection to Hip Hop and porn? Nonsense!
Can anybody say Luke?
Hip Hop and porn fit together like a hand and glove, peanut butter and jelly, kool-aid and sugar, and all other things that go together. Videos are peddling more flesh than Cinemax in the 90’s, XXL (back when it was really dope) was dropping (sanitized) sex issues and 2Pac was running around with porn stars in the X rated version of How Do You Want It.
So here we are, the bad guys are doing a whole week dedicated to America’s dirty little secret: sex, sex and more sex! Love it or hate, revere or revile it, porn is here to stay. While I haven’t read any of the pieces that will follow in the coming days, I do know the reputation of our HNIC, Andreas Hale, and the quality of the writing you all have come to know from this site. Regardless of how you feel about porn (and I KNOW I’m not the only one that watches—and was watching before they reached the age of majority), read with an open mind and draw your own conclusions from there.
When all is said and done, I’ll bet any reader on this site that you won’t be able to find better coverage of porn on a Hip Hop site—EVER. We’re stepping the game up because, well…the world is bigger than this rap shit and covering Hip Hop news all the time is—for lack of a better word—boring. Expand your minds, it won’t hurt… I promise.
Nonetheless, I could write a book about each of the critiques I saw in the My Blue Heaven comments section.
Here are three indisputable facts:
Porn and Hip Hop ARE connected
Positivity doesn’t sell
More of you than not indulge in fantasies of the flesh. From the strip club, to the night club, y’all love this porno shit and nobody’s bringing you the real like the men and women of DX. Rest assure, there will be plenty more interviews with smut peddlers in the future, so feel free to shoot your boy some names and I’ll do my best to make it happen.
As for everybody else who keeps begging DX to cease and desist with the sex: Let me find out Hip Hop’s gotten conservative. With all the misogyny that goes on in these forms, the last thing I expected to find in my comments section were folks who sound like they came straight out of the GOP convention. Sit back, relax and enjoy the week of festivities. I’ll be back to drop some extras from my Vanessa Blue interview later on.
Peace and wet dreams,
A-Plus
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
I've heard a number of different arguments that seem to take the heat off of why black folks aren't responsible for the nonsense currently assaulting my eyes and ears on a daily basis.
Some people will lead you to believe that the TI's are running this rap shit and force emcees and reality show hoes to act a damn fool for the camera (and to some extent, this is correct).
Other people will lead you to believe that white people are keeping this stuff on the air (and to some extent they're correct too).
But any person of African descent is fooling themselves if they can say with a straight face that anybody OTHER than us is keeping the cycle going.
We are the only (or one of VERY few) cultures that degrades our own and will turn around and fight folks to the death for the right to do it (hey, I don't care for Al Sharpton, but he has some valid points). Long gone are the days of white actors dressing up, pretending to be us. We'd have a foot to stand on if black face was the new black, but the black faces on TV acting a donkey... are actually black faces!
At the end of the day, we green light this stuff and anybody telling you otherwise is lying to themselves. Black Americans have always been trend setters. Don't believe me? Answer the following questions:
1. How successful would your favorite (commercial) rapper be without a co sign from "the streets?" [1] 2. How long would 106th and Park have lasted if the audience was all white? [2] 3. Would Flavor of Love made it past a pilot episode if the majority of the women were white? 3a. Would Flavor of Love even been conceived with said concept?
The answer to all these questions is as follows.
1. Not very 2. Not long 3. No 4. Hell no! Flav wouldn't even be allowed in the building
According to an article that appeared on Blackenterprise.com, Last year’s season finale of Flavor of Love was the highest rated show in VH1's history. VH1’s Charm School was the no. 1 show in black households for the first week of July, according to Nielsen reports.
Let me run that back: VH1’s Charm School was the no. 1 show in black households for the first week of July, according to Nielsen reports.
We are starring in and supporting our own toxic behavior. The hour glass on blaming white people is running low. If we stopped watching and co signing foolishness, the rest of the world will fall in line.
That's how it's been, that's how it always will be. [1] the rappers that do make it are the exceptions, not the rule [2] I'm not sure if this is still valid, but 106 and Park, at one point in time had higher ratings than TRL
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
While I applaud anybody that's able to speak up and articulate the shock, dismay and outrage (hey, SOMEBODY is following him) of a group of people, I cannot sit idly by and watch said person inadequately address the problem.
THAT is my problem with Al Sharpton.
Anybody with any ounce of common sense realizes that Al's anti-bad language crusade is, when stripped down to a bare minimum, absolutely correct. The problem is that Al (as usual) is a day late and a dollar short (and that dollar would be better spent elsewhere).
Those of you who've followed DX over the years know full well that Hip Hop (in a general sense of the word) is capable of policing and defending itself. If you look at past editorials on this site, you'll see that we've challenged the industry on both artistic and moral levels. If you look at most of the blogs, you'll find Meka Soul, Brillyance, Andres, and J. Burnett (if I missed any other of my blogging fam, I apologize) talking about the shitty state of music AND the content of said music.
A look across the web will reveal the same thing on numerous other sites. Last I checked, The Source isn't afraid to check the industry and (to a much lesser extent) XXL as well.
Sorry Al, we got this covered.
With so much going on in our communities and the Black community in particular, it's with absolute shock and amazement that I continue to be bombarded by a black "leader" with a bad perm insistent on cleaning up the music some pre-teens listen to. If I took an informal poll, I'm willing to bet a paycheck that the majority of kids under 18 don't know who Al Sharpton is, and if they did, don't give a damn one way or the other.
Sorry Al, a day late and a dollar short.
I would also bet a paycheck that said individuals read The Source, XXL, or log on to Hip Hop DX
Yeah, we got this one.
But in the 07 (and beyond), Hip Hop is gunning for bigger things. We're more organized and as we get older, we get more focused. We're taking on the war in Iraq, health care, education and a host of other "grown up things" because, well... Hip Hop is growing up.
We're doing all the things that "leaders" like Al Sharpton should be doing. If Martin or Malcolm were alive, I doubt they'd be spending the bulk of their time trying to clean up the latest 50 Cent album (though I have no doubt that they wouldn't be pleased with what plays on the radio).
Al and Jesse need to clean it up, and clean it up quick[1]... or be replaced by the next generation of real leaders.
Let this serve as a warning.
[1]and I'm not talking about rap lyrics
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
If you didn't catch the original, you can check it out here
I know there are a few women that post here on the regular, so this one is for you (but the fellas are more than welcome to weigh in on this one).
After having a little debate with my "soon to be" over the original blog, she stated something that seemed a bit out of this world to me. Here it is: My point is this, if you want to see a change in trends it has to start
with the men. If more men reacted to a woman's intellegence, rather
than her body, then more women would display their intellegence, rather
than their bodies.
Let's be real for a moment, it's easy to say that if men stopped watching videos with half naked women in them, they'd go away. On the flip side, if women didn't want to be the objects of half naked affection, said videos would also go away. I'll be the first person to admit that I like looking at half naked women, so the odds of me not watching said entertainment is slim to none (though I do think that the game suffers from a lack of balance). On the flip side, if women stopped being half naked, I suppose that I and the rest of the circle jerks in the world would find some other form of entetainment to tickle our fancies.
With that said, it has always been my belief that the movement for either a)total annhilation of the video vixen or b) at the very LEAST, a balanced portrayal of women in Hip Hop (and subsequently pop culture) must be led BY WOMEN, FOR WOMEN. A man can't lead a women's movement any more effectively than a white person could've led the Black Power Movement in the 60's.
I believe that men should be limited to two roles if/when said movement jumps off 1. SUPPORTING the women 2. TEACHING the next generation of young men how to be responsible father's/spouses and how to properly treat a woman.
What say you, DX readers... can a man lead the women's movement? I think not, but I could be wrong...
though i doubt it.
The views and opinions expressed in this blog are those of the writer and not necessarily those of HipHopDX.com or Cheri Media Group.
After watching that Deelishis (did I spell that right?) video, I must say that I enjoyed the visuals (the song was pretty whack though).
Aside from the 25% hard on, it also put the nail in the coffin on what used to be one of my humanitarian efforts.
The relationship between women and Hip Hop (today) is like Ike and Tina... and that's putting it mildy. I bet that Ike and Annie Mae had a a lot of happy times, but the only thing we remember about those two is rolling rivers, throwing punches and "eat ya cake Annie Mae!" Hip Hop is a lot like that. We had our Queen Latifah, Ladies First, U-N-I-T-Y moments, but when all is said and done, "it must be ya ass cause it ain't your face" and "back that azz up" will FAR outweigh the positive female contributions to the game.
A lot of this is the fault of women.
It's hard to have sympathy for, or take up for a group of people who have none their damn self (and yes, this can double as a message to Black folk in general as well). I apologize in advance for not being compassionate about the plight of Karrine "Superhead" Steffans or any other video vixen/turned industry jump off who sold some T&A and a wet tongue for fame. I apologize for no longer giving a fuck about the video models mistreatment and I apologize if, as a man, I can no longer take your "it's more to me than a pretty face and a phat ass" comments seriously because... well, you made a name for yourself BECAUSE of your pretty face and phat ass.
I've come to the conclusion that certain women just don't give a fuck about being degraded and I honestly believe that deep down, some of them actually like it. It's certaintly no surprise that sex sells, it sold yesterday, it sold today and it'll sell tomorrow.
Hell, prostitution is older than Jesus.
However, when one continues to play up ASSets and play down everything else, it's no wonder why I can't look at a woman like Deelishus, or Superhead, or *insert name here* and don't automatically see the Mother Teresa in them that must be dying to get out underneath the lack of clothes.
On the flip side, that's not to say that the women who do choose to act like they weren't raised by wolves deserve to be disrespected by us men folk. In fact, I believe that those who, by choice or plain ignorance fail to make the distinction between a classy lady and a jump off missed a couple lessons of home training (and perhaps the jump offs did too, so maybe they were made for each other... alas, the Circle of Life)
In this life, you reap what you sew and if the seams of your jeans are busting out, you can't be surprised to feel a palm on the back of your ass.
Maybe we were just trying to fill the void.
And now, back to the show... http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2mdbu_deelishisrumpshaker_music
I've been trying to get off the "Hip Hop is dead" wagon, but some people make it so hard. Case in point, the following video is subject to opinion as far as whackness goes, but I've seen like three or four different "crank dat *insert something here* videos*
First we did the Heisman on that hoe Than the Superman on that hoe Than we Spiderman'd that hoe Than the two dances were put together
I recall seeing the Roosevelt and now... The Lion King?!?!? Word to the wise, Disney is not to be fucked with, y'all remember how they raped the Ying Yang Twins.